Something as simple as separating ejaculation from orgasm for men is real, yet most men don’t realise this is possible for them. Just because both usually happen at the same time (ejaculation being the release and orgasm the pleasurable peak) men just aren’t aware that they’re separate functions. Most men believe that their experience of ejaculation is their actual orgasmic pleasure. If a man’s focus on ejaculation is his goal, then most likely he rarely experiences his orgasm and, if he does, it is only at a very small percentage of his true capacity. Ejaculation still does feel pretty damn good and it is a separate experience from orgasm. When a man stops when he comes, then that is his finish. The actual reality at that point is that this is his beginning of feeling his separate orgasmic pleasure. This is an attention-grabbing concept, even for those who are aware of this potential experience of separation. And even for those who are aware, it can often be a struggle to achieve pleasure from separation, as it may feel like giving up something familiar. Yet the potential beyond this point is limitless pleasure and a life-changing experience that is well worth the effort of exploration.

text from : Graeme Sudholz